Still hiding pregnancy
Y’all I’m over 30 weeks pregnant and STILL haven’t told my own father and step mom I’m pregnant.
They are the most judgmental bunch so I’ve been just protecting my peace during this pregnancy as I haven’t wanted any negativity.. but as the finish line inches closer I know I need to tell them.. I just don’t know how.
Mind you, I’m a grown woman, with my partner, live in our own house, and I have a toddler already. Yet they always tell my sisters and I thy we all need to go on birth control so there’s no more grandchildren.. (there’s 5 between my sisters and I)!
Anyways.. I know they won’t be happy and will be angry I’ve kept it this long but I had to do what I had to do to avoid stress and judgment.
But now.. how do I break the news 😰
Show your support
whether you have more children or not is your and your husbands choice, NOT your fathers. if i were you i’d wait til delivery day and then boom, theres a baby. if they get mad you didnt tell them explain that thats how you wanted the pregnancy to be, and that it was a special experience between your little family
Send them a cute postcard describing how happy and exited you are.
I’d write a letter of explanation. And let them know they are the reason for you hiding your pregnancy. 🙏