Man eats first

Disagree. My kids eat first 🤷🏾‍♀️ if it’s an issue he can get his grown ass up and make his plate I already cooked for him 😂 it’s probably about extra 3 minutes he has to wait he will be perfectly fine

Are you fckin crazy, children have a higher metabolism due to constant growing. They get hungry quick. An adult can deal with it when they’re hungry because they’re ABLEBODIED and can cook/find food. Children dont know how to do that yet. How about that “man of the house” HELP you make the plates so that way you guys can eat right after giving to your children first!!

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I never understood this discussion. Why does it matter? If food is plentiful and everyone is gonna eat who cares who eats first? Also I was raised that everyone eats together after grace.

I make plates for the hangry kids first so they’ll be quiet.

Buddy wtf

omg no children get their plates last bc if they’re first then they eat and by the time me and my husband finally sit down to eat they’re up running around again and the circus starts again lol 🎪 or we just sit down and my son is like “mommy help me/play with me” etc. and gets upset that i’m eating like SIR u had a 5 minute head start to eat LEAVE ME ALONE lol so i’ve started serving him last and it’s been the best decision because then we’re all finished eating at the same time and my son isn’t sitting forever waiting for me and my husband to finish or whatever the scenario is

Men are not children and we need to stop treating as much… 🙃

I only disagree because MY MAN agrees as well; he’d rather eat with me after our kids have all been fed

A man will never eat before my kids do.

I usually always serve the kids first, mostly cause I have to cut their stuff or prepare it in an easier way for them or cause I want it to cool down a little. It’s not that deep though usually we all start eating at the same time

I get my plate first. Everyone else can make their own 💁🏼‍♀️

I make plates for my daughter and me and my husband makes his own and we all sit down together. If I choose to make my husband's plate he's grateful and gets it at the same time as our child. I hope this isn't because some dude feels entitled.

what 😂

Typically i serve us all together. If i cant then my child and husband at the same time. If not possible my son would usually gets his plate first Regardless we all eat at the table together ❤️

My husband will not eat until the kids eat and even myself and any women around us like my mom have their plate first and are eating.

I plate my kids first to let theirs cool down but my husbands is served first but no one eats till everyones plate it served. Its really based on what temp we like our food at and I like mine hottest. Idk that's just how I do it. I don't really care how ppl do it in their own family tho🤷🏽‍♀️

I wish i could figure out how to make emojis work on here again. I would laugh my a** off

I give my husband his plate but I expect him to help his son eat too.

I plate my kids food first and often, they eat before us because they are hungry sooner.

My oh is normally first to the table but the food is plated. My youngest used to eat earlier anyway as 6.30 was too late for her.

I don’t understand this, don’t you just dish everyone’s meal up at the same time??

@Annie you only disagree because that’s what your man thinks ?😂

My house is not a patriarchy we eat together or my children eat first and then me and my man eat together. Some days he’s even the one who cooks and plates it up 😱🤯

@Danielle no not at all i enjoy eating all together as a family. not just my son eating THEN me and my husband eating etc. lol i want to all sit down together and all be done together. dinner was always like a group activity growing up and by serving my son last it keeps it that way. dinner is the only meal that my son gets served last otherwise he’s “first” because we don’t formally sit down for any other meal it’s like a free for all lol

We take turns in cooking, both of us makes the kids plates first so they will be quiet. And then we sit together.

Do people actually think like this? Kids first to me always. I cook different meals for my kids because 1 is fussy and 1 is autistic but yeah them first

We’ll eat together unless it’s late late and then I’ll feed our kid, meal prep his lunch and then get two portions in the microwave and wait till he comes home cause I like talking to him before bed.

What sort of cave man question is this? I serve all the plates at once.

I make sure my child gets the first plate, then my SO, then myself last. I’ve always been taught that the server eats after making sure everyone has their plates, out of courtesy.

Nah. I always feed the kids first because they need their food colder anyways lmao also alot of the times the kids eat dinner earlier and me and my husband eat later lol

As long as the man is earning an income and providing shelter for the family, that's positive... Indeed!!

Eat when the food is ready? If the kid’s food is ready first, they eat first and vice versa. If everyone is eating the same thing, eat at the same time. This is absurd.

I always plate my kids up first, my ex never did though and it pissed me off no end!

My husband does most of the cooking and serving.