Do you like living in Connecticut?

Hi šŸ‘‹! We are thinking of moving and waiting on a job offer. So our decision is going to be soon and we are looking for input. We are thinking of moving from California to Connecticut. With the equity from our house, we could afford a nicer house with better schools. We've been pretty much priced out of the area we live in and we would be stuck in a small house here in a not-so-nice neighborhood (800 square feet). We've looked at the numbers a lot and also compared a lot of states and Connecticut seems like it has a lot of pros (weather and property taxes aside šŸ˜…). Does anyone who lives here have any insight into living in Connecticut as a family? Do you like it here or wish to be elsewhere?
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Hello! I’ve been living in Connecticut for over 8 years now, and I really love it here. Some areas can feel a bit quiet or isolated at times, but it’s definitely possible to build a strong sense of community. I’d recommend doing a little research on the towns you're considering—each one has its own vibe. West Hartford could be a great option, especially coming from California. It has top-rated public schools, a lively downtown area with great restaurants and shops, and a very diverse, welcoming community. The town really blends that New England charm with a modern feel. The only thing I still haven’t gotten used to is the weather! I’m originally from the Dominican Republic, and I don’t think I’ll ever fully adjust to the winters—but everything else makes it worth it!

I do miss NJ but CT isn’t bad at all. Compared to NY/NJ it’s not as diverse in people and food options. We moved to Trumbull about 18 months ago and for families it’s a nice quiet town with a good school system. It’s near highways and surrounded by towns with the things to do and restaurants that Trumbull lacks. We travel to Norwalk, Milford and Bridgeport often for food and stores.

Moved here from ny 7 months ago and i really love it.

@Melissa thank you so much for your input! I have looked at some suburbs and so far thinking about - west hartford, cheshire, southbury, middlebury, higganum, and glastonbury. I'm still doing research on specific suburbs for price point vs value but those all looked nice to me. I do like the idea of having some restaurants close by and good schools is a must. Cheshire looks great but the prison system kind of worries me šŸ˜…

Haha, I totally get it. I live in Wallingford, which is right next to Cheshire. Cheshire is a quiet, family-friendly town with good schools and a suburban feel. It’s not very diverse, so that’s something to consider depending on what’s important for you and your family. The correctional facilities, including the state prison, are secure and don’t really impact day-to-day life in the town. Overall, it’s a peaceful place and a solid option if you’re looking for a calm, residential area.

Glastonbury is also a great option 😁

@Melissa thank you so much for that input. It really helps a lot. Ive been googling so much for months šŸ˜… but it helps to get an insider's perspective. Glastonbury, Cheshire, and West Hartford are my current tops!

Awesome! Definitely reach out once you’re settled—would love to connect and help in any way I can!

@Melissa thats really sweet! I'll definitely reach out once we make our decision (should be within a week šŸ¤ž)

I grew up in CA, most ppl who moved this way prefer it minus it being a bit colder

I’m originally from Missouri so Connecticut was never on my radar. I met my husband while living in NYC and we moved here in 2018 for him to complete a residency at Yale. We ended up loving CT so much that we purchased our first home in Hamden in 2020. What I love most about CT(and was pleasantly surprised by) is that it’s beautiful and has some of everything - good for beach days, hikes, good breweries/vineyards, beautiful seasons (fall is my favorite), urban or suburban or rural areas, etc. And it’s close enough to the NY that I can always make a day trip visit when I find myself needing a big city fix. I work in education so there’s a wide range of school’s in terms of quality but you can find some top notch districts in every county, plus the private options of that’s your thing. Essentially, whatever your preference is, you can find it here. ā˜ŗļø

Nix that apostrophe in ā€œschoolsā€ …I swear I work in education 🤣

@Rickeena Thank you so much for your input! When I read about "cons" for Connecticut, I often read that it can be boring. So, that makes me hopeful! We are pretty much homebodies anyway (but we do love hikes and restaurants). Lol! I graduated with an English degree, so I feel your pain. I often frequently reread my texts for typos even though it's not that serious šŸ˜…

You must know my struggles with grammar and punctuation well! šŸ˜† Yeah no shortage of things to do or delicious food to eat. Another perk is New England, in general. I would argue it gets more and more beautiful the farther north you travel. And compared to California, the states are small enough to visit several within a few hours of driving. My favorites include Rhode Island, Vermont and Maine, if you need recommendations. šŸ˜‰

My husband and I met in Seattle and he is from Monroe originally. When the pandemic hit and we both work remotely, he asked if we could relocate back CT. We live in Newtown and it’s a cute city. I miss the hustle and bustle but the calm is nice and it is beautiful here. I am originally from Florida and I have an aversion to heat and a love for snow because I’ve been deprived, so winter here is magic for me. I like CT a lot.

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