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I completely understand it’s a difficult decision if you don’t have the proper support or financial situation you have to do what’s best for you at the beginning of my pregnancy I automatically said abortion it’s due to a lot but I’m now 14 weeks and excited financially I’m stable but don’t have the best support so either way you are making the right decision by doing what’s best for you

Please don’t take this the wrong way but my advice is not to get another abortion. All babies deserve a chance at life. Not to get religious, but also remember that our children are not ours, they belong to God, and we are here to take care of them. I don’t know your financial situation but your child would be happy to have a little brother or sister. You might not see the value now, but when they start playing together and bonding, you will be happy you made the right decision. But if you really can’t afford the other child, there are a lot of loving families who would be grateful for the opportunity especially if they are unable to have their own. Or it’s best to invest in yourself and get your tubes tied to avoid getting pregnant so as to not to feel sad or guilty of aborting. Whatever you choose, do what’s best for you, I’m no one to judge someone’s life choices. Stay strong mama, you got this!

@Denise if they belong to God then he knows when he's sending them to someone who's going to get an abortion, and not all children get along with their siblings.

@Jenny He knows from waaaay before we were thought of about every second of our lives but He gives us all something called free will. I agree not all siblings get along with each other, but we as their parents need to guide and teach them.

@Denise exactly. So why would he put an embryo into someone planning on am abortion unless he himself did not intend it to ever be born.

@Jenny back to free will. He gave us all choices, He knows what you’re going to do or say before you were even born. He doesn’t want us to get an abortion, but we made the choice to do it.

I just don’t want to take care of two kids alone , I don’t think the father will help I’m not living with him by choice he went out a lot while I was home, I want to have a family and possibly another baby someday but I just want to be stable and with a good partner

@Denise

That’s understandable mama, I’m not judging you in any way shape or form. Do you have any other family on your side who is willing to help? How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking?

@Denise then free will is an illusion.

@Jenny how is free will an illusion? Don’t you have a choice to make decisions independently without being fully determined by external forces or internal conditions? What clothes you want to wear, what you want to eat, where you want to go, etc? That’s free will.

@Denise but if everything we're going to do is already known by some higher power, it's not really free will, it's predestined.

@Jenny everything is predestined already but you’re mixing up illusion and free will.

@denise I’m 26

I would say to pray about your situation, believe and He will guide and provide for you and your children.

Maybe deep down, you don't want to abort. Pray about it

Do what’s best for you and your situation !Nobody on this app is going to help you take care of your children so if you’re not ready for another one mentally, physically, emotionally, etc then you do what you feel is right for you.