If you chose to have an age gap do you also feel this way??
My husband and I chose to wait until after we are done with school to have our second and I’m still very much on board with that plan. However I keep seeing people that were pregnant the same time as me posting their announcements that they are pregnant again and I’m so happy for them but also makes me a little sad and emotional like damn that could’ve been me too 😭😂 anyone else feel this way?
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I did the same route, I had my first and was going to have back to back kids and bailed on that idea 😅 I worked in a daycare and though it was nice, I wanted more and wanted to finish school, buy a house, and get a bigger car So I did all that and when I was ready, of course came secondary infertility. But! My kids are like 4.5 years apart, and tbh, I love the age gap soooo much. My son is so sweet to our baby girl, and he’s pretty independent and it’s great that he’s potty trained so we don’t have 2 in diapers 😅
My husband let me choose when to get pregnant again but I'd had an emergency C-section so I waited 9mo and honestly, when #2 is born #1 will be about 2 yr old so that's perfect. I couldn't wait 😬
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This exactly how I used to feel it was so weird. I felt like I would only have one child for a long time because it just never happened. My kids are 5 years apart and it’s literally perfect timing and you just have to really trust that. As soon as you relax and let it happen naturally it’s like it happens before you even realize