Do I let this stop me?
I have a crush on somebody but only thing is I’m not sure how I feel about him having 5 kids 🫣😭
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@Lala 💋 he’s 36 his oldest is 15 and youngest is 9 with two bm
i’d say go with your gut, be sure before you go through with anything… ultimately his kids are something we cannot change about him but if he is worth it and if you really like him, then it definitely is something to consider accepting… don’t make too many sacrifices upfront for him just yet though, try to remain guarded until you feel like you are comfortable with the fact, & if that doesn’t happen, don’t force it. at least you can say you tried… it’s better than wondering.
@Lala 💋 said what needed to be said
Maybe casually date him to start. They show their true colors pretty fast.
babes, i promise i’m not trying to be harsh… but if they’re all by multiple women, i’d probably RUN if it were me 🏃🏾♀️💨 that seems like a red flag to me in my opinion 🚩#sorry . and you’d also have to be sure that he is 100% over his kids mom(s)… you don’t want to get in the mix of things if there’s already some sort of dynamic between them. also, are they younger? older? their ages matter 😭 i don’t mean to deter you but i just want you to really think about it x