I would love another but my partner doesn't 😕 hes found it quite an adjustment having one. Our little boy still doesn't sleep through the night so the thought of going through it again just doesn't appeal. I'm almost 41 as well so time is against us as well.
I say no because I now have my second who’s 4 months old but I am 2 and done 😂 definitely after having my second so close to my first has just made me realise that I am blessed and bloody stressed enough 🫠 so 2 and done it is for me! I want to be able to enjoy them both growing up without thinking about the timing of another one x
I am but not because I personally want to, my partner has twins already so he doesn’t want any more. As much as I would love another one that was mine, I do think how would I deal with two as my first is so active I don’t know how I would keep up. We are also older 36 and 40 so thinking of our ages too
Same boat as Becky, we have a 7m old too and it’s just manic! Lovely and very worth it but the thought of another makes me feel sick 😅
Reflux then cmpa and still a terrible sleeper. It wouldn't be fair mentally for me or anyone else to do this again.
I'm 38 and my husband is quite a bit older than me. He actually wants another one, but it'll be too much for me physically and mentally. I also don't want to take the risk of having a less healthy baby. And I don't want my husband to delay his retirement plan ever more to provide for the second child.
One and done because we are a bit older, couldn't afford another and partner definitely doesn't want another x
We likely are as I had traumatic birth (didn't realise it at the time) and now waiting on a likely cerebral palsy diagnosis due to neglect by hosp at birth and I don't think mentally i could cope with a second as I don't know the needs of my first yet
Always wanted more than one child but had a traumatic birth which really scared me, I could never go through it again x
I'm tired, just started a new job, taking one to the shops is difficult enough, I don't have enough hands, I feel as though my little one needs my full attention newborn stage was hard for us as little girl has cows milk allergy, just to list a few 😂 reasons I'd want another, is so my little girl would have a sibling xx