Oh my gosh I’m so so sorry to hear. That really does put it into perspective doesn’t it. My first pregnancy was a miscarriage and then took 18 months to conceive our beautiful boy who is perfect. So I know TTC is hard enough. Thank you for putting it into perspective again.
I totally get it. I was due 17th December with my number 2, and was very disappointed in the date. She came spontaneously a little earlier on 8th December which i felt isn't AS bad..but it's still December. We are going to try and keep her birthday and Christmas two separate things, so she feels special. I didn't do any special announcements to my partner BTW. Just came out of toilet after doing the test going..oh my g.. 🤣
Congrats lovely 💛 Considering your due date, perhaps you could decorate a Christmas bauble with “baby 2 coming Christmas time” or wrap up your positive test in Christmas wrapping paper? You could use your eldest child to announce - like having big sis/bro hand your partner the positive test? The possibilities are endless! We were due with our 2nd child NYD in 2023, which really bothered my husband and I - we felt our holidays and summer would be all consumed by the end of a pregnancy and newborn life. Our daughter was born early due to medical complications and passed away. In hindsight, we felt really foolish for having these concerns. So when I found out I’d be due just before Easter this year with our 3rd bub, after a very long TTC journey, we shrugged it off. Of course our Easter celebrations were extremely different this year, and we have a baby born in the middle of a movable holiday, but we’re so relieved to finally welcome our next family member. Best of luck mama