Has anyone skipped trying to conceive for a cycle or 2 in order to prevent their childrens birthdays from being too close together?

I was thinking about this. My bestfriend convinced me to go for it anyway… and turns out I didn’t conceive that cycle anyway

The fact of the matter is you don’t know what cycle will be your cycle and if you want it bad enough then it’s kinda like why not take every chance you can get. I’m kinda glad I didn’t skip it. It wasn’t my time but at least I know I tried. Can’t lie that I’m not kinda happy though that i don’t have to worry their birthdays being to close. lol how my friend convinced me is that if they are close you know when to prepare and can have everything set and ready to go around that time of year and instead of it be scattered. Kinda like preparing for the holidays 😆

@Micah I just keep thinking that if I skip a cycle I’ll just think what if that was the cycle I was supposed to get pregnant

Exactly! That’s why I just decided to go for it anyway