How to handle

Coming up on my second appointment. With baby we lost we found out at the second appointment. So I'm coming up on when we lost the last one(13weeks4days) I'm 12 weeks 1 day right now. Also coming up on when due date for the one we lost. How do you guys suggest to handle these dates coming up? I'm so nervous and anxious about both dates. Will also add I'm taking care of my first born who will be 2, 5 days before what my due date was.

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I had a scan on Tuesday which was the time I'd lost my mmc at, thankfully all okay. On the lead up I tried to have the mentality of assume it's all positive and if it's not you will get through it but there's no point torturing yourself before you know. I had to remind myself a lot of it but I definitely think it helped. I also said it out loud to myself to help calm myself. Hope it all goes well for you 🤞🏼

Honestly I was in the same boat, I just tried to go in positive, but my heart was racing and I was also in the back of my mind just preparing myself every time for the chance it could happen again. But I reminded myself that what’s for me will be for me. It was a lot of mixed emotions and when the previous due date came up I felt so guilty for my current pregnancy that I was still mourning the previous. Therapy has helped a lot honestly

I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks in December 2023, it then took me over a year to conceive again (Feb 2025) and I miscarried again at 6 weeks. I am now just over 7 weeks from my last miscarriage and didn't have a period inbetween. I have a scan on Monday and tbh the only thing that's getting me through it is my symptoms. I may feel like shit but at least I'm pregnant! Positive vibes and speak loads of affirmation, this is a new pregnancy with a good outcome, 2025 is your year🤍✨

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