Committed or not committed confusing?
My friend and I have been intimate on and off for 12-13 years. Despite claiming to love me, he resists labels or commitment, and sees others. He's a poor communicator, but I’m deeply in love and feel truly seen by him. When we're together, I feel loved and he's a shoulder I lean on. We were best friends before becoming intimate. Do I stay or go?
Go after all that time and he don’t wanna be more committed than you already are. That’s a long time.