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Still Upset

One mom from a group on this app organized weekly zoom calls a while back. I noticed everyone on the call was white (that wasn’t my issue at first). But then I noticed every time another mom logged on the call with their baby everyone was like “aww, your baby is so cute” and no one said that about my beautifully handsome king. I didn’t say anything I just gracefully left and never came back on those calls. They did zoom calls every Wednesday.

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I would feel the same way,I dont blame u.

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Yeah like I didn’t notice it until more and more moms came on and I’m like wow! I feel like they didn’t even consciously realize what they were doing but I was definitely out ✌🏾✌🏾

Wow I see why that would make u upset...He's absolutely adorable too omg 🥰

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Omg your son is too much himself 😍😍 tooo freaking cute

Aww thank you so much girl 🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️

Well welcome home mama...over here we support each other ...that's why I made a group just for us...I was met with similar things from other groups...

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Yess!! That’s literally what it’s all about. SUPPORT. I definitely did not feel that at all. And thank you! When I found this group I was overly ecstatic so thank you for this 🙏🏾 I’m sorry you went through a similar thing though

You are welcome ☺️!!! It's ok .....💞 We will always come out stronger... together !!!

Your son is adorable. I find it funny when people act as if a child that's mixed or black isn't cute. Looks are fairly objective.

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Thank you so much. And I know right - definitely objective!

I'm so sorry that happened to you. How ignorant and rude! A child is a child, no matter if they are born with or without defects, ethnicity, social economic status, etc aside. I prefer an inclusive, non-confrontational environment. If that only exists amongst our own, so be it. ✊🏾🤎🤱🏾