Husband hates my parents and siblings
My husband has always had a strong demeanour and somewhat of an anger problem (he seems to fail to recognize it). Things got really bad when COVID hit because my husband would take extra precautions while my family didn't as much such as still gathering together. My family would also argue that he would get together with his family at home but the difference was that at his home we wore masks and my family didn't. This was all difficult to avoid since we lived in the same house as my parents (us downstairs and them upstairs). Besides the major disagreements regarding COVID my family also has heard and seen my husband's anger problem and additionally the verbal abuse we both would use against each other. Overall there has been alot of conflict and dislike among personalities. My husband doesn't want to fix things since he says my family won't apologize and take.ownership therefore he won't either (he also truly believes hes done nothing wrong). I don't know how to fix things and I'm desperate to do so. Anybody else's spouse have conflict with their family? How did y'all fix it?
My husband doesn’t like my family for different reasons but.. I will say from somewhat similar circumstances.. it’s just hard living with in-laws. It’s hard to have roommates in general. There’s many reasons to butt heads and if he went as far to take extra precautions during Covid(mine did the same because he is a germaphobe ) and your family didn’t.. living in the same home with them I’m sure was difficult. There’s no way to really have your husband and your family’s relationship get better, they have to figure those things out for themselves. But I will advise against having your family get too involved in your marriage. Having separation between households (your family’s and yours) is important. I don’t think family should ever really be involved in your marriage unless you’re being harmed and you need help. I know your situation is exhausting.. I wish you luck