I’m ready to be a single mother y’all 🤦🏽♀️
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Sis, I feel the exact same way you do 😩😩 I mean I work and whatnot but he thinks that I'm supposed to still do all the housework and watch the kids and cook it gets exhausting and I'm tired of sounding like a broken record 😩😩
With any mom that is SAHM you need to tell your husband or partner that since you are not working that you have to do a few things, need two separate accounts and one joint (one for bills and the other for yourself. Also your husband or partner needs to be giving you a set amount of money every month. This way you can put it in your account and do for you then it is up to you how you spend it or do something for you like ice cream. I was at this place at one point in my life and just because he's the only one working doesn't mean that you get zero. Ther other suggestion I would say is to communicate with him tell him how are feeling, set up expectations and boundaries not only for yourself but your relationship.
Relationship and communication is hard, you either are with someone that can have a mature conversation and is willing to work on it or you don't. Grass is never greener somewhere else just how you nurture it. I'm 💯 for mental health and getting out if you need to. But I've also seen it too where it is easier to leave and hope the next relationship is different. But then you find the same thing again. Take care of yourself
I have no advice but I felt this in my soul. 🥺
Right! I just feel so unappreciated… I was working full time before him and while pregnant. He promised he’ll handle everything but he’s not. If I ask for $20 he start trippin. I’m always borrowing money from friends and family. Their asking what he’s doing I thought he was taking care of the family. But he choose not to have a set job schedule. He rather do doordash when “it’s popping” so he say not enough and he is on my last nerve.