Ranting about my baby's dad
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@McKayla He helps very little around the house, I'm actually the only one working right now he just recently finally decided to get a job bc all I do is bring it up to him. I have tried to talk to him about this, and he says he'll get better, but actions speak louder than words.
Wow. Yeah he doesn’t seem to care. :/ I have had many guys say they’ll do better but never did. :/ Hopefully he actually does change for the better. Nothing worse than being in a relationship where you do EVERYTHING on your own.
@McKayla, yeah, he keeps blaming it on his mental health, but if his friend needs help, he automatically gets up to go help him. I can understand that sometimes your mental health can get bad, but all it feels like it that I'm not his priority or his daughter isn't either. I grew up in a household like that, and I now don't talk to dad. If he doesn't get better, I might leave him. I don't want to, but I can't have my daughter grow up not being important to her dad. I just don't know what to do.
No I totally understand my ex who I was with for 3 years was the same way. Luckily I never got pregnant with his child but I was working 10-12 hour days to pay all the bills, buy all the food, pay my car loan, both our insurances for our cars etc. he had the balls to ask me when I broke up with him if him and his new girlfriend could have my house and car 🥴 like wanted me to leave all my stuff besides my clothes for them. I left him so fast and changed my locks. No man is worth the stress of feel unloved
@McKayla He's finally doing something, but it's almost 1am. He even had the nerve to ask if I'm okie. No, I'm not, I'm pissed.
I would’ve lost it. My anger issue control has gone out the window since getting pregnant.
@McKayla I most just cry more lol
I feel that to 😂
I can’t speak from experience because usually my husband helps me. But honestly I have to ask. Does he help around the apartment at all or do you do must the work? My husband has always been willing to move stuff around because he knows if he doesn’t help I’ll hurt myself doing it myself 😅 if he can’t help or isn’t home I call my sister and her boyfriend to come help.