Aww bless you hun, Yeah not acceptable. I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I don't know what is wrong with men, I'm going through a rough patch with my husband too atm and it just seems as of they don't realise what they have and what they are risking losing. Stay strong and put you and your children first, I hope he wakes up and changes for you hun xx
I'm sorry this is happening to you. My husband is a drinker and has many times come home all hours of the morning or not until the following day and has just gone MIA. I finally lost it and told him that if doesn't pick up his game and start showing respect to me and our children then he will lose us. He didn't seem to take it too seriously, so the last time he did it, I went to my parents for 5 nights and told him if he doesn't buck his ideas up then this will be permanent. Only been a couple of weeks, but seems to have changed things 🤞🏻 Not sure of your situation whether you can just tell him you've had enough or whether or not you can go to your parents or someone else's house to make him realise. But unfortunately some men just need a rude shock to realise we are serious