Boyfriend ignoring my calls and texts

My boyfriend/child’s father left on a “business” trip to Vegas. He has not been communicating since he left. And ignores my calls and texts. He only responds to say he’s working or stop calling because I let my anxiety take over and started repeatedly calling him and texting him to get a response and ask what’s going on. He’s literally just sending me to voicemail and no responding to texts. He was at a club last night drinking with his boss and coworkers and I texted. No response at all. So I blew up his phone and when he got home he texted me drunk saying he’s done and we are breaking up and I’m acting crazy. He doesn’t acknowledge him ignoring me and says that he has done nothing wrong. I called and he finally answered and said he doesn’t want to be with me anymore and he doesn’t like this at all and it feels miserable. He says I get like this when he goes out but I only get like this when he ignores me. I’ve asked him to please just acknowledge me and respond and I wouldn’t react that way but he doesn’t care and says I am wrong and crazy and need to get over my insecurities. Now he has blocked me and isn’t speaking to me. We have a 2 year old and he has a 13 year old as well from another relationship. We live apart he lives in his home and I in mine and his 13 year old lives with his parents our 2 year old lives with me. But we do family stuff whenever he has “free time”. We were together 3 years and lived together all of us and then his daughter moved with her mom and then we broke up for 2 years and have been back together for 5 months. Miss us all in one home and we’ve been planning on moving back in and talking marriage but want to be sure because of the kids. But now I just feel its going downhill again. This is the second time this happened where he went out and ignored me while he was out and I freaked out. What would you do in the situation? How would you feel and react to the behavior?

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I would not stay with him. He could at least sent you a snap video of him at the club and his surroundings. But i would not be blowing him up. If they’re gonna cheat they’re gonna do it in the club or not. I get how he felt but he chose to be in a relationship with you. If he knows how you are then he should give you the attention that you’re demanding. I see both sides but he is more in the wrong.

This sounds like a typical narcissist but I do gotta say some people really don’t know they have this problem. That it needs to be treated. Let him know what y’all can do together to seek help and if he doesn’t wanna and quote on quote doesn’t have time don’t waiste your time with a I don’t have time for us guy.

I been there and he actually got me prego do to something I didn’t want anymore. Sometimes they turn darker sometimes they get lighter. Be safe and make sure you do what’s right for you and use your intuition please. Sometimes they can become very dangerous do to trauma:

Good luck

I'm proud of you for trying to give it another try and putting effort, especially with kids involved. He's showing you by his actions that he hasn't changed.

Honestly, it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. If he knows you hate being ignored but does it anyway, then he obviously doesn't respect you. Staying together just for the kids is never good. You might as well end it now because yall most likely will never be happy, and it impacts your children more than you know. I know because my parents hated each other.

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