Does he really love me ?
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@Diamond I’ve asked him and all he’s told me is that his baby momma doesn’t want me around her kids and it’s only bc she wants to be back with him and he knows that and I do too … she’s using his kids to get in our relationship but how do you not want to fight he told me if she says that he has to pick between the kids and me then he’s going to break up with me ….. we live together and have been for six months now but why am I not good enough to fight for she just going to do this again when he gets in another relationship if we break up …….
@Kala im sorry that this is happening to you. I don’t know you guys situation 100% but to me that doesn’t sound right. Yk most men who’s dealing with bitter baby momma’s like that usually put their foot down when dating. If she doesn’t want her kids around you? Ok cool stay away from them. Allow him to make arrangements with his children outside of you guys personal time. If you stay with him and his baby momma keeps his kids away and like a weakling he’s stops dating you you didn’t belong in that situation in the first place. That’s what she is gonna do with every relationship he tries to have because she’s bitter and still in love. He also might still have a little care in his heart for her because why would he just break up with you like what you guys had for the last 6 months mean nothing to him. He needs to put her in her place or it won’t work and you’ll have to exclude yourself from that equation for the sake of your sanity. ❤️🩹
@Diamond I’m not like him tho I know me and I wish I could just shut my feelings off and walk away but I feel sick to the point I could actually throw up with the thought of losing him for good
@Kala I know im just like you. When you love you love hard and sometimes we end up falling for individuals who really don’t deserve it. He probably really loves you however doesn’t have the backbone to put his baby momma in her place. So he might find himself going through this all the time. I’m sure if he wanted to be with her he would be. Obviously he doesn’t want to be with her but she controls him because she uses their children against him. I feel bad for you guys he needs to put his foot down seriously.
@Diamond I agree but I cant make him and I feel like if I push then I might push him away even more
Maybe he’s going through something… he’s got to at least open up enough to understand what’s bothering him to know what steps you should take. It’s not fair to you that he has you all confused now. It’s like considered love bombing. Try and see if he will open up. If he doesn’t move along it’s not fair to you. Even if you rubbed him the wrong way or did something wrong you deserve to know that to at least correct your mistakes.