How would u feel if ur partner/ husband got a boner in the delivery room

Is that a bad thing & how would u go about it?
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I think I would be focusing on the discomfort/pain/contraction of the labour than my husband's boner 😂 worse can happen ill ask him to just go get chicken nuggets at maccas and bring some for me

maybe it turned him on seeing his woman create and bring life into this world and just being such a bad ass woman? and he just doesn’t know how to express it but his body is reacting to the experience. that’s the only thing i’d think of you know?

So my partner had a few of his dad mates tell him abour their labour experiences when we were having our LO, and he did mention that quite a few of them had said they had gotten boners while their partners were giving birth.. well over half of the guys he talked to. I think maybe it may be more common than we realise but not something that is really talked about to women because we associate labour with pain and the feeling of a baby coming out but men with their simple minds think labour pain noises sound similar to sex noises and therefore don't mention it for their own safety (theory has been confirmed by the above mentioned boner getters)

@Dani oh I was thinking more of what Cat said😂I didn’t realize the moaning would probably ressemble sexđŸ˜«

@Catt I agree& id like to think that’s exactly what’s gonna happen to my husband as he tends to get hard even not in a sexual manner like if he sees me talking to my bump. So I wanted to know if it’s good or bad in birthing room? Anyway thank u :))

i would laugh honestly 😭😭 that’s such a weird time to be horny but it wouldn’t be a negative thing for me lol

I don’t think that happened for my husband but he did say a couple times afterward that the whole time I was in labor he was just struck by how beautiful I looked. Like something about me was just extra attractive to him, even though I was obviously pretty disheveled. Idk if that would have anything to do with it đŸ€·â€â™€ïž (and he’s definitely not the type to just say that if it wasn’t true)

It’s the adrenaline, it can cause involuntary erections. I wouldn’t think too much into it unless he’s given other reasons for you to feel uncomfortable about it x

@Neveah boner doesn’t always mean horny for men lol. And also they can’t control morning wood does that mean they’re horny?

@Lara so true !!!

Wouldn’t have noticed since I was in awful pain but idk why in that very moment it happened.. guys sometimes get hard without being horny as I’ve been told by my bf so idk lol I wouldn’t think to much into it honestly and if it bothers you ask him about it

I was in labour for 33hrs and my husband got one at the most opportune time. I figure that they get erections super often anyway just naturally so chances are if you have a longer labour that they’ll get one. We had a good laugh at it and it made me lighten up a bit through the pain lol 😂

I would rather him to have an erection than to throw up đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

I’ve only had one baby and my epidural only worked on one side while my babies big ass head literally ripped almost the entire length of my vagina leaving me with second degree tears. It was bloody and loud and very scary, if my husband had popped a boner during that time I would be extremely concerned so I really think it depends on how your labor went😂

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There's not a snowballs chance in hell I'd even notice and if he dared to bring it to my attention he'd never get one again.

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