Questions for baby daddy’s new girlfriend

Why do you need or want to ask her questions?

@Gabrielle to get to know her, so I know her intentions with being in my sons life

Gotcha. I mean I’d just ask about her. Ask what she does how she grew up become friends with her not enemies.

She doesn't have to speak to you. Yes she may have met your child, but if your ex is happy with her then let them be, and you focus on you and your child in your time. Sorry this is just from experience.

@Zoe Naomi she has messaged me herself, asking me if there’s anything I want to ask her and she completely understands my anxiety about her being around my child

Just tell her up straight to keep your little one happy in hers and ex time. Ask id she can send an update or two when little one is there to reassure your anxiety

That’s a pretty optimistic sign from her I would think. Would suggest that it shows potential respect and consideration. Perhaps you don’t need to rush with questions, just keep the lines of communication open - so that you are free and open to ask or clarify things when they come up. Aim to keep it friendly or at least civil between the two of you, so that if she stays around - perhaps it will allay some of your anxiety if/when your child is around her. Perhaps even thank her for contacting you with that approach (though depending on circumstances, that may be going way too far for you!!) -perhaps just say you appreciate it, and you’re glad to have her number in case you ever need it. ….i don’t know, something like that sort of thing. I imagine it’s a hard situation, particularly for you , when it’s your child. - perhaps her approach to you and your approach to her can make that a less stressful experience all round. Good luck.