Fucking hate my partner he makes me sick to my stomach

If you're not happy with him, leave him. It's not healthy for you or your little one to stay in an unhappy relationship. You say you're only with him because of your 2yr old, but 2 happy separated parents are better than 2 unhappy parents living together x

If you’re after advice I think you should leave, you and your daughter will be happier if you are happy. It’s not healthy to hate your partner and it can’t be a positive example for your daughter. Are you in a position to leave? You should be happy in life! Wishing you the best of luck!

You say you're staying for your daughter but she'll pick up on that tension between you. It isn't a good environment for her. If he repulses you that much you should leave, it's not healthy.

You have one life, is this really how you want to spend yours? In a loveless houseshare with a cheater? No it’s not the plan you had but it doesn’t sound like that was ever going to happen as he’s not who you thought he was. Who knows where a new path could take you - Surely somewhere better than this. You’ve mentally checked out anyway, time to physically check out too.

It’s very easy to tell someone to leave. If you are staying for stability snd have detached yourself. Just be formal and continue the roommate lifestyle and try to do it without tension. But start planning for your own stability. This way it’s easier to walk away when it is time. By the way stis like chlaymida can transfer through kissing so if he has something like that and he kisses your daughter (say your the type of family that lip kisses your kid) you can transfer it to the child. If he a good father. Like can you trust him with your child if you were to eventually separate and live apart and split time with your child? When we become mothers and rely on our partners and they betray us it’s hard to get stain quickly. Just make a plan so that your unhappiness leads your to a civil separation. Where you can co parent but he doesn’t have to be your problem anymore.

I respect that you don't want to argue in front of your girl but I don't think an STI is something you can ignore. Even just from the perspective of your health, if he doesn't get treated he will reinfect you, if he doesn't start using condoms with others he can catch more. He needs a wake up call. Can you get someone to watch LG for a few hours to tell him you know and he needs to take health seriously even if you're going to look the other way on his affairs? Get well soon!

If your unhappy your baby’s is unhappy leave his nasty ass and put him on child support

Sounds like you have lost all feelings for him. I went through something with my past bf of 2 years and when I started to feel the way you feel, I left. It was harder than I thought emotionally but I felt better after a week. You should leave. Why waste your life letting someone make you feel that way when there is someone out there who will make you feel amazing and in love again. No point sticking around with a cheating scum bag.

Leave

Have you not thought about him? You’re staying with him for the sake of your daughter, but your daughter is young. My parents separated when I was young and I don’t remember it. But he could be with someone else. Someone that makes him happy. And the same for you.

Gosh if this doesn’t sound so familiar. I’ve been in your shoes, not exactly but very similarly. I had a feeling something wasn’t right and my gut told me right. It took me forever to finally figure it all out. I remember at one point I stopped caring before I found out because deep down I already knew. Our son was barely a few months old. Some men suck. I’m here if you want to talk.