Toddler boy is giving me a tough time
So I’ve just had my second baby 2 months ago and my toddler (2 years ) who was always an easy baby giving me such hard time now.. he’s crying over little things wants to be held, became super picky and barely eating , throwing tantrums all the time .. and of course super destructive with the house hold stuff… , he plays with us and fiddles a lot too ..! I am giving him most of my time but it gets super tough because I’m breastfeeding my little one…
He’s also crying during his sleep once or twice
What should I do ? Any advice! I feel like crying all the time !
I am so sorry you’re going through this :( my son had a very similar reaction when his sister was born. First thing I want to say is it seriously gets better. He’s now 4.5 and my daughter is almost 2 and they’re great friends. But I know it doesn’t feel like that right now. I would try to spend a little bit of one on one time with him each day if you can. It only has two be a few minutes. If you have help, Have someone snuggle the baby for a bit (or when the babies napping) and just have a few minutes where you do what your toddler wants, completely uninterrupted. I know it doesn’t seem like much but I really think you’ll see results in a couple of weeks. My son was quite aggressive towards his sister when she was born and this really helped. You’re doing great mama!! ❤️