FTM here, but love and care for your baby doesn't measure by number of scans booked or singing šš First pregnancy will always be more exciting and special, that is only natural so don't beat yourself up šš¼ Not sure what to advice but I am sure once baby comes you will shower him with as much love and attention as your first born š„°
Iāve been the same. I havenāt given this pregnancy as much attention as the first due to toddler. Itās just not possible. But I figure they are getting to hear my voice loads both singing and talking as Iām interacting with toddler. And I try to rub my belly as Iām talking or singing for that tactile interaction. They also get to hear big brothers voice loads too, which will be lovely when they are soothed by it when they come.
Same here but baby is still bonding to your voice when you talk sing or read to toddler they donāt know itās not for them. And Iām sure all three of you will bond with baby once they are here.
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
ā
Why donāt you book a scan? Theyāre so amazing and made me so much more excited after I saw bubs in 4D. It is tougher with the second baby but maybe make time in the evening to try and bond, easier said than done I know but donāt feel guilty at all xxx