Second baby guiltšŸ„²

Canā€™t be the only mama feeling like this surely! I feel so guilty and like I havenā€™t tried bonding with this baby at all in comparison to the things me and my partner did in my first pregnancy. Feel like I donā€™t talk to the bump, sing to it or even interact with it because Iā€™m so busy with my toddler or keeping on top of the housešŸ˜¢ Havenā€™t even booked a 4D scan or anything special
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Why donā€™t you book a scan? Theyā€™re so amazing and made me so much more excited after I saw bubs in 4D. It is tougher with the second baby but maybe make time in the evening to try and bond, easier said than done I know but donā€™t feel guilty at all xxx

FTM here, but love and care for your baby doesn't measure by number of scans booked or singing šŸ˜ŠšŸ˜Š First pregnancy will always be more exciting and special, that is only natural so don't beat yourself up šŸ™ŒšŸ¼ Not sure what to advice but I am sure once baby comes you will shower him with as much love and attention as your first born šŸ„°

Iā€™ve been the same. I havenā€™t given this pregnancy as much attention as the first due to toddler. Itā€™s just not possible. But I figure they are getting to hear my voice loads both singing and talking as Iā€™m interacting with toddler. And I try to rub my belly as Iā€™m talking or singing for that tactile interaction. They also get to hear big brothers voice loads too, which will be lovely when they are soothed by it when they come.

Same here but baby is still bonding to your voice when you talk sing or read to toddler they donā€™t know itā€™s not for them. And Iā€™m sure all three of you will bond with baby once they are here.

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