Onlyfans, cheating?
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Yes. I’m going through the same thing. My boyfriend was paying for customs and messaging them, meanwhile he can’t get a can of formula if I asked. Watching porn is one thing but to go out of their way to spend money on other women for their own sexual desires is just wrong. He has YOU. It’s up to you if you want to continue the relationship or not, but I recommend putting up a lot of stern boundaries if you decide to work on it together. I’m here to talk if you need to 🤍
Yes without a doubt. He is going out of his ways to get involved with someone else. And it’s especially disrespectful when you are his partner . He should be in a relationship with you that fulfills his needs and needs to express if he needs something from you. 100 percent on him for being a dirt bag.
Absolutely! My fiance was doing the same thing. Maybe he doesn't think so but it's definitely something to talk about. The honest truth is you have a family and child together you have more important things to spend money on and bills to pay. There's no reason he should be paying for onlyfans when pornhub and other sites are free. Reach our if you need to rant or talk!
If it disrespects your boundaries then yes it is cheating. Feeling how you feel is valid. It's not an overreaction if it's disrespectful to you.
It is super disrespectful, and gross. He doesn’t respect you (or women, generally) and he needs therapy. Would he want his daughter, or mom, or sister, being an OF girl? Of course not. It starts with free porn, but always escalates into either custom porn (pretending that gal is their girlfriend/other woman), or weird or violent sexual content. Porn is awful for relationships 💔
As @Amarisa stated if it disrespects your personal boundaries yes. Communication should happen BEFORE boundaries are broken.
I would say maybe, leaning towards yes. Yes if you consider free porn cheating, and DEFINITELY yes if he is using the chat feature. Speaking as a former OF model (had to pay the bills.) I'd say about half the subscribers messaged me 1 on 1, 25% asked for customs, and 10% commented on my main feed of posts. All of those interactions send it over the edge for me. Personally I have talked with my husband about it (I did OF before we met) and set the boundary that I wouldn't be okay with him having it, and he agreed. So for us, any use would be cheating.
Yes. Definitely cheating
I wouldn't consider this cheating. It's pornography. If it's something that upsets you, that's fair. He crossed a boundary, but one that he maybe didn't know you had. Discuss this with your partner, but I think we're overloading the term cheating.
Honestly yes. Paying to see other women naked just absolutely violates your partners trust. I could understand the occasional porn look up but to pay to see other woman nude is disrespectful. But I’m sure some women have different opinions about it. Just depends on the relationship and your boundaries.