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Partner sniffing my underwear!

So this is a weird one…. My partner works away a lot and since the birth of our daughter we don’t have sex as much as we used to as I’m always so knackered. I’m fully aware men have their needs though so I do make an effort to fulfil his needs. It was my birthday at the start of this month and my partner bought me a few sexy outfits to wear in the bedroom. Since we aren’t having a lot of sex I hadn’t actually worn any for him yet so I thought I would make an effort last night, the only night he is home this week, and pop something sexy on. He loved it and we had a good evening. Fast forward to this morning. I was checking what times I had been up in the night breast feeding on my baby camera when in one of the frames something appeared next to my bed. Watching it fully I realised my sexy knickers had been at the bottom of my bed and when my partner woke up he picked them up and then walked almost out of the camera pic and just stood there for a couple of moments. He then chucked them down next to the bed where my feet would go when I got up. Maybe to remind me of last night?? Anyway. I noticed he then picked them up again ten minutes later then after a minute or so (out of the cameras vision) he walked back into the cameras vision to Chuck them back where my feet would be. What do people make of this? Do you think he was sniffing them? What ever else could he have been doing with them 🤷‍♀️ And do you think this is a bit weird or would you like it? I’m kind of in 2 minds. One is a bit disturbed by it and the other is happy that he was remembering last night 🤷‍♀️

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Quick update. He’s now on the road driving a long way to work and he sent me a voice note on WhatsApp saying he was just thinking of last night and he loved my outfit etc. So him picking my knickers up this morning must have been him thinking of last night at least but what was he doing with them!? I just have a feeling he was sniffing them 😂😂😂

Is it creepy lol when we sniff their shirts or sweaters I think I would find it sexy lol he may wanted a memory of u just happened to be ur knickers

Surprisingly enough alot of men do this but don't like to admit it worried you'd be cringed out. I know alot of guys who love it. It smells if you. I love wearing my guys tops around. The smell of him makes me feel good. And reminds me of him. His washing, deodorant, aftershave and his sweat. Everyone has their own smell distinctive smell. It's the animal in us that love the pheromones our loved one gives off. Men are the same, they smell our pillows our scaffs ect including our undies. Undies are more concentrated scent, and he obviously very much enjoyed the night you both had by reminding himself of you. It's a complement especially when he did it multiple times in a row he loves you and you smell. Don't be put off we are animals deep down driven by hormones. I'd personally pack them in his bag next time so he has that lovely surprise for when he opens it 😏 let him enjoy you. X

@Katie I hadn’t thought of it that way around

@Siana as I said in my other reply, I had t thought of it like that. That’s a very good point. I was thinking of some creepy man when I found him doing that but he’s not some creepy man he’s my partner 😂 So I guess you’re right. It’s pheromones. He’s still been talking about it for a while this morning so I think you’re right there too! He really enjoyed our time together and appreciated the effort I put in. I’m definitly going to steal your idea of putting some knickers in his bag! 😁😁😁 I think he would love that! X

If you don't find it too weird to deal with embrace it. Let him feel confident with enjoying you and your smell. Honestly the more you let them know that your into their inner freak the more 😏 fun sex can be. Id just slide mine off and toss them in his face and ask does he like these. If he takes a deep breath Inn I'd say something like 'you love the smell of my pussy baby do you' 😍... I've come across some things that kind of cring me out a lil but at the same time kind of hot you know. So Id let the guy know that I find it hot and their eyes just change like they need to devour you and go cave-man on you. Xx Definitely surprise him with them in his bag next 😊. Definitely give him something to think about when away. Even some lube for you know 😅

I don’t think it’s creepy… I sniff my partners boxers because they always smell so nice (the front part). Men can be sensual creatures and smell comes into it a lot. I also love the smell of my partners armpits and balls. No shame. It’s attractive to me and it’s probably the same with men smelling women.