Advice on jealousy
So my husband works with all females, and very closely with females who r much younger than me and also model type women - beautiful thick hair, amazing bodies and so forth. And I’m struggling atm with hair loss and il also heavily pregnant so don’t feel my best but, a few of these women I’ve met and haven’t been very welcoming to me, they’ve kind of ignored my existence, and my husband tells me the stories of a couple of them giving BJS to men in the office and each to their own I know that. I just can’t help but feel insecure, and I need advice on how to not feel this way. My husband works till 7-6 with them Mon-Fri, and by the time he comes home to us and our kids he’s tired, and I’ve noticed he’ll talk to these colleagues about people at work he doesn’t like and so forth but everytine I ask him about work his response is always the same ‘Boring and busy’ so I just feel like he doesn’t really talk to me about stuff, and he’s there with them all day, surely he’s bound to fancy these girls and the fact that he talks to them more than me really am I just being silly
Why is he “bound to” fancy them? Just because they’re there? I think you need to do a couple of things: 1. Talk to him. Tell him honestly how you feel so he can put your mind at rest or involve you more in the work chat and 2. Spend some time on yourself. It seems like you might be quite down on how you look. Why don’t you book a maternity shoot? They will make you look even more radiant than I’m sure you already are and you can hang it in a prime spot to remind yourself (and your husband) of that.