I’m 44 and here after 7 prior losses so solidarity on a similar journey! My c section is booked for 2 weeks and 5 days time and I am in so much pain all the time I cannot wait to get her out of me, but at the same time I am terrified for when she is here! I think it still doesn’t feel real and probably won’t until she is here
My biggest recommendation is a handheld electric fan! I was sooooo hot after birth, the ward had a big fan to use but I was worried about that being on baby so this time I’ve packed my handheld one ❤️
A long phone charger, water bottle, light nighty for when you’re in labour and the biggest comfiest PJs for after you give birth are my must haves! A friend told me to treat myself to a luxury shower gel when I had my first for my post birth shower and I’ve done the same again this time, as it’s nice to have a little luxury after birth☺️