Just a rant/moan

Does anyone else get put off the idea of phoning triage up after experiences? I went in Monday last week as i was experiencing tightenings that were more painful than normal (my midwife has said if i get 3 in 1 hour then to phone up) also my baby hadnt been moving as strong with his usual pattern and i had a lot more discharge as well, i went in and they put me on the monitor and whilst i was on it i felt tightenings but the monitor didnt pick up on it and baby went nuts on it too, his heart rate was 190 at one point! I had a call from a midwife saturday night saying that i had thrush and that that was probably why i was in there… it really wasnt i was in there due to feeling tightenings, i just feel like they thought i was crazy just cause the monitor didnt pick up on it
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I was told to phone triage yesterday by my community midwife for reduced movements. The woman I spoke to on the phone said I shouldn't be calling triage and can be monitored with the community midwife... I had to explain that it was the community midwife who told me to phone and go in and traige midwife asked me why... by the end of the conversation, I didn't want to go in at all after the way she spoke to me

@Natalie i just feel like i was treated like i was crazy, its appalling that they think you dont know your body x

Oh yeh I rang once and must of spoken to the most dismissive midwife ever, I was really taken back by it … I never went again and it really put me off ringing again x

@Natalie whaaaat. What can your community midwife do? She doesn't have access to the monitors. Some midwives need to change careers, because they're obviously in the wrong one

Girls, please don't be fobbed off by midwives with attitude. At the end of the day, the consequences of making the wrong call are just too grave to not go in and get checked over. Midwives don't know everything and they can't feel what you feel and they don't know *your* baby. You're your baby's best advocate x

Due to this I stopped calling them. I go in directly. Hehe.

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