Am I being petty?
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Yes. I couldn’t even tell you our anniversary date as it’s in the middle of the August school holidays and other things take priority after 17 years together.
It wouldn’t annoy me but they would need to understand that I wouldn’t be going. My husband and I love taking trips during our anniversary and I’ll always pick that over the stress of someone’s wedding.
I'll add that were both in the wedding so I'm sure our anniversary will be packed with pre wedding activities @Lorri🌱
Yes. I would actually be happy for someone to share my anniversary weekend and even happier to celebrate my own anniversary celebrating someone’s new found love.
Yeah I think it's petty. My sil got married the day before my partners birthday and he had no issues at all said it made it easier to celebrate the morning after at the breakfast they had planned in the hotel
Yes, the world doesn't revolve around u, and I'm sure they didn't stop to think about wat date they wanted to pick because they have to consider all the people's anniversaries in their life. Either u take ur anniversary trip at a later time or u skip the trip for ONE year to support ur loved ones on their important day. Especially since judging by ur entitlement if it was ur wedding ud feel a way if someone didn't show up to ur wedding all for a trip they could take at a later time, assuming tickets, hotels, or events weren't pre-paid
Honestly yes you are, it’s a different date and not the same year as you mention anniversary not wedding day. June is a very popular time to get married and there’s a lot more that goes into picking a date than them worrying about your anniversary - the thought wouldn’t even have crossed their minds!