@Sam Yes. Mind officially blown. I’ve had a couple friends cry to me that they are so devastated that they are pregnant but when I ask if they used any birth control they say no. And these aren’t young, dumb teens. I’m talking about grown ass 30+ year old adults. It’s just sad. I can’t believe it. Like am I supposed to feel sympathy for you? Bc u low-key just planned this pregnancy frfr
@Kedra wow!!! Man I wish god gave us the type of body to pregnant. We out here struggling!!
@Sam yes!!! Like preventing pregnancy is wayyyyy easier than getting pregnant. I wish I was fertile Myrtle lol
I think also when u want to be pregnant so bad it stresses you out and it’s hard . But when you feel sexy and beautiful and your not thinking about getting pregnant at all you fall pregnant. Especially if your eating correctly and exercising.
@Kedra girl sane here!!!!
Okay I will say I was slightly upset when I found out with the one I'm pregnant with, even though I wasn't preventing it... But I tried for 4+ years for my son who is a little over 2 years old... I think I'm not excited about it but that's because I'll have 2 boys so close together... It's going to be so hard on me as I'm going to be going through a divorce/ separation soon after this last kid is born. However I'm super thankful my body worked for me for the kids I have as I have PCOS and never know what my body was going to do.... I am sorry I wasn't happy at first but pregnancy is horrible for me but I'll get over it
@Erika I also have pcos and other issues. We also tried for years to get pregnant again. Just when we gave up and started ivf, it miraculously happened on its own when we weren’t even trying. We weren’t trying and I didn’t think I could get pregnant, but I was still happy. If I just didn’t want kids anymore, I would’ve used birth control? It really seems that simple so I don’t really understand your situation… it just doesn’t make any sense for a woman that had a horrible pregnancy prior and doesn’t want any more kids to continue with sex and not use any type of bc yet become depressed when they get pregnant again. It just doesn’t make any sense to me. I hear y’all. And I hear you, but I really just don’t get it.
I swear to god. People out here getting pregnant and not wanna be pregnant but the one that are struggling are fucking dying. You shouldn’t be upset if you pregnant and not try to prevent. Girl be for real!!!! Blows my fucking mind!!