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Bf don’t want anyone else in the delivery room
Hi,
So I’m on my second pregnancy with this man and the first time I have him what he wanted. No one else in the delivery room. This time I can’t bare it. I am so close to my sisters and family that my mom passed away I would have her. He’s constantly wanting me to choose him and him alone or nothing. If I have my sister there he’ll walk out mad blame me for not seeing his child births. I don’t care anymore! I’m tired of it.
Thoughts? He had zero issues with my family he just for me some reason gets weird and only want me to himself. Not me at all to allow it.
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Girls. I have been halfway out this relationship and I’m 37 so this could be my last labor experience and he’s not worth it for me. I am so close to my family and need them there thank you for your comments
I felt so stuck the last 7 months but I’m getting there
If he wants to miss his own child’s birth and “walk out mad” because your birth plan includes a 2nd birth partner for support… he’s the problem. How immature. I understand people have preferences, that some people want this to be a private moment as a new little family but some people want and need more support. In this instance, you get the deciding vote. It’s your birth, he can have his tantrum outside.
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id be leaving him completely lol. he CLEARLY cares about his own feelings and needs more (it doesn’t seem like he cares about yours at all) which is crazy when you’re on about labour. a literal human being pushed out of u and he has the audacity to say HE’D be uncomfortable, it sounds ridiculous. him blaming you for him leaving is the definition on manipulation and gaslighting which is someone you do not want in the room anyway, especially after making it about him the first time.