Bf don’t want anyone else in the delivery room
Show your support
id be leaving him completely lol. he CLEARLY cares about his own feelings and needs more (it doesn’t seem like he cares about yours at all) which is crazy when you’re on about labour. a literal human being pushed out of u and he has the audacity to say HE’D be uncomfortable, it sounds ridiculous. him blaming you for him leaving is the definition on manipulation and gaslighting which is someone you do not want in the room anyway, especially after making it about him the first time.
Girls. I have been halfway out this relationship and I’m 37 so this could be my last labor experience and he’s not worth it for me. I am so close to my family and need them there thank you for your comments
I felt so stuck the last 7 months but I’m getting there
If he wants to miss his own child’s birth and “walk out mad” because your birth plan includes a 2nd birth partner for support… he’s the problem. How immature. I understand people have preferences, that some people want this to be a private moment as a new little family but some people want and need more support. In this instance, you get the deciding vote. It’s your birth, he can have his tantrum outside.
Birth is about you. Labor is about YOU! It’s not about him. If he wants to leave because someone else is there then he can go. Because no one made him leave, but it will be his own childish behavior that makes him miss his own child’s birth… and to be honest, for him to even suggest that and say he will leave if you have someone else there when it’s YOU going through labor sounds very controlling 🚩🚩🚩🚩