Planning a small wedding..

Hubby and I eloped 2 years ago. We are planning a small wedding in the future with family and friends.

Not at all! If their offended that’s their problem 😂 If they are really good friends/family they will understand and just be happy for you! 🫶

I was going to have a small wedding and was worried, but everyone understood. Turns out I had an even smaller wedding (covid 🙄🫠) it was just me, the groom, and our 2 witnesses, so our immediate family was upset, but they still understood and accepted it.

Mine wasn't small in the end (120) but I had originally planned a much smaller wedding due to cost. I honestly didn't care if people wouldnt be happy because it's my day and they're not paying for it. Then my mum offered to help so I was able to invite close family and friends.

We started out inviting 50 but with Covid we’re limited to 25. We felt bad in the moment but I’m so glad we went thru with it and got our perfect intimate day with only our close family and wedding party. Whatever you decide will be right for you. Don’t let anyone influence you otherwise!

Clicked the wrong answer; no I didn't worry about offending anyone. The most important people to me where at my wedding {sadly excluding my grandparents but, I'm sure that they were with me in spirit😇}. My husband had been married before & had a big wedding. From my understanding, a big wedding is over rated🤷🏼‍♀️

Nope. We just had us and our toddler and didn’t worry about anyone but us

Had a total of 12 ppl at my wedding and the few I wanted there but couldn’t be I understand and anyone else all well it was our wedding

I eloped and it was just me and my partner on a mountain top- it was incredible and just about us. If people are so selfish to make your union about them, let them be upset!

no. maybe i’m just thick skinned but i don’t mind hurting someone’s feelings if i have to or there’s no other ways around a certain situation

Luckily, 2 of my husband's cousins got married in the same year as us (within 6 months of each other - May, July & November). They weren't inviting cousins, just aunties and uncles. So that made it easy for us. We had I think 44 at our wedding