I think I have my answer

I think I’m already set on my decision BUT I want to know people’s opinion. So I have this “friend” that’s my oldest sons godmom. I haven’t seen her in about 7 months because of reasons unknown. Anyways. When I was pregnant with my second, I only saw her about once or twice. And she saw the baby twice. Once when he was about 2 weeks old, and once when he was 3 months old at my oldest son’s birthday in April. Now the baby is 10 months, and will be a year in January. We barely talk as is. I will always invite her to my oldest birthday party just for the sake of “well I invited you” just in case she doesn’t show. But she does show up. Which is great. Even though I’m still salty that she didn’t give my son a card or a gift. But I only see her or talk to her at special occasions now. We used to hang out like almost 3 times a week, but these past 3 years I see her like every 6-7 months. Honestly I don’t even know her anymore. Now.. the question is. Do I invite her to my soon to be 1 year olds birthday even though she met him once!!???