Boyfriend been watching spicy videos
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@Mathilda hurts so bad :( we never discussed it but I thought he would know as he knows how insecure I am 😭 think he’s only done it cause he thought I wouldn’t find out… just don’t know how to bring it up without loosing my cool I’m so upset about it xx
Sending lots of love. This is simply awful 😔 xxxxx
@Louise thank you :( I feel so heart broken x
Bring it up in day light where there has been no alcohol etc so it doesn’t escalate. Tell him it’s one of your non negotiables and you feel like it’s a form of cheating. Sadly lots of people don’t think that it is. My ex boyfriend was so shocked that I thought it was cheating and he was genuinely confused and stopped after that ( or so he said ) but he didn’t know it was cheating to me! Xxx
I’m so so sorry. I know how much this must hurt 💔 some people don’t think looking at that kind of imagery is born etc. lots of people watch porn in relationships, but at the start of mine and my partners relationship I made it clear to him that that to me is over stepping the line and a form of cheating. Did you set that as a boundary in your relationship? If not- maybe he didn’t know that that is a form of cheating in your eyes. I’m not excusing his behaviour as I know how awful and terrible it is. Just a thought. Sending you lots and lots of love xxxx