Checking man's phone

How do y'all go about checking his phone when he's sleep. I can't get the nerve to do it and not get caught. Reason I ask is I have my suspicions.
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Just ask for his phone while you are having breakfast or something. If he doesn't want to give it to you, your suspicion will be confirmed. Sneaking and looking will only get your feelings hurt if you find what you are looking for.

And then men be so crazy and turn things around and blame you . Lol Stuff like you are making me lose trust in you, 😆 , whilst having a full sext conversation.

I just look, I know I shouldn’t but I normally do it when he’s in the shower.

@Mutago 🤭 I've tried that he gets so upset so that's the tell tell. But last night a ding went off on his phone at 11:10pm then he put his phone on sleep mode and it went silent. I just need to know what it was.

@Mutago 🤭 factsssss

@Caroline he always puts his phone on the bathroom counter. He keeps that thing glued to him.

Has this happened in more than one occurrence?

@Jane this is this first time I noticed it. This morning I asked him what time his sleep mode goes on. He said from midnight to 6am... All I said was interesting. Didn't mention it being on before that time or anything. Just gathered my info and shut my mouth lol

Girl you just gotta go get it. And make sure you check his deleted folder.

@Stacey 🇵🇸 it's so hard. He keeps it glued to him and I can't stay awake til hes sleep.

I think just be honest. That’s been bothering you. And if he has nothing to hide then he should give it willingly. If he comes defensive saying oh you don’t trust me? And you can say I would like some reassurance.

@Jane the crazy thing is he will be defensive. Like today I walk in the bedroom he's still in bed on his phone. I see the screen flash on his face and switch to something else. And I sat beside him. He goes. I don't trust you. Why did you just do that. Like what come lay next to you come on. I'm not stupid

Wooooow he doesn’t trust YOU?? Babe he is projecting. He’s basically telling you without telling you. What a chump.

I even noticed he has turned his text notifications off his watch...

All the red flags babe. Don’t tolerate his BS.

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