Would u be mad

I wouldn’t be mad. It’s his partner and child. If it was a friend of his, they were being disrespectful to your home. Then yes. But it’s his family causing no harm. An extra night wouldn’t bother me

I guess I wouldn’t mind another night if they weren’t a bother. They shouldn’t have said they asked again though if they didn’t.

I’d let maybe this one time slide but I’m worried it could be a trend….hopefully they don’t “forget to ask” another night!

I'm with Amanda but I'd personally be mad, so I don't blame you. Like I'm letting you stay one night and you take advantage of it without asking me again, what the f? One of my old housemates was exactly like that and it was an absolute nightmare!!! I'd let them stay another night but maybe say to them hey I heard from my friend that you were staying another night and you said you asked but I don't remember you asking. Can you please check with us before making such decisions as it'll impact (shower times, schedule... Etc whatever is relevant). Good luck! Please keep us updated I'm now curious 🤣

Personally I’d be mad, it domes matter if their not making noise or making a mess it’s the principle, he’s a guest in you’re house so technically he shouldn’t even be allowed to have his own guest and the fact you okay’s one night that should of been appreciated but the fact they slipped another night in there without checking with you or you’re partner is taking liberties

Im confused why they don't live together this arrangement doesn't make sense to me. Also IMO I couldn't live without the father of my child because family's belong together

Hoping the best for the families because I also understand you and yours needing your own space too

I foresee them moving in and not telling you. Do you know the girlfriend’s living situation?

@Aurélie her mom came and picked her up. I told her like okay it’s noon time better find a ride because your not sleeping in this house another night

@Skye the mother lives with her parents and the baby. And the dad just got out of a bad situation and needs a place to stay for a few months. And the mothers parents said no. So he works with my husband so it works.

Good for you for standing your ground! I'm glad they didn't take the piss. I can't believe people's audacity! 😂 That's so ballsy, I'd never ever do something like that.

If it’s not happening often I wouldn’t be mad

I would be mad because why lie! And why would you go behind my back and not even come to me and actually ask!!? But I also would just let it slide because it is his family and they’re not really a bother but I would make it clear that they have to leave that next day no exceptions

Them lying about asking you already lets you know they’re not leaving anytime soon. We made it a rule to never let anyone stay over for reasons like that.

I’ll be mad and tell them not to get used to it idc if they’re not a bother it’s my house

You sure they didn’t get permission from your husband?

@Hopeful I did wonder that as well!

@Hopeful I asked him if they asked him and he said no but he does not care that they didn’t ask. Which I also have a problem with. But I told the kid that she was not aloud back here. If he wants to see her then he can find a ride and go to her place. Which is her parents house. So they can deal with it.