Husband is so lazy

All he does is lounge round on the sofa all day watching tv (he does work but nothing too extensive) he hardly does any parenting I do 90% of it, all school runs, diners, teas, activities, food shops, housework etc all he does is go to work and come home. Then sits on the sofa all the time on his phone he is really annoying me I have mentioned to him about being on his phone but he isn’t bothered. And doesn’t listen. He never does anything for our 3 year old complains if I ask him to take him out etc

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mine does exactly the same its so draining i just feel like am there to do everything and never feel like am appreciated

my car tyre was flat the other day i asked if he would sort it as i had little one in bath but he said i would just have to walk to school tomorrow which is an 45 mins away, i ended up getting a friend to help me once id sorted bath time, never does nowt for me always me running around 24/7

What is he actually bringing to your relationship? He should be easing your load...not contributing to it. What is the point in having him around. Sounds like you'd be better off on your own as you pretty much are anyway x

Go on wife strike do everything for the kids and not for him tell him to sort himself out make it obvious your annoyed with him he will soon ask why things are being left. Then be straight with him and tell him how you feel.

It's time to be firm and give him a wake up call. Step up or step out. You're not there to do everything when you're in a relationship, if he wants to continue with this after you putting your foot down then you'd be better off by yourself. You're technically doing it by yourself at this point. Sometimes people need a wakeup call to realise just how good they've got it.