Huh he might have a secret email account
You could try looking in the trash folder in his email(s), figure out his password for something else (usually guys use the same password for everything because their brains are the size of there appendages), you could also see if he has the password saved in his passwords. Or, type in the emails he has and click forgot password. If there is an email in the inbox, he uses that email address. Sorry, I’m crazy. Lol
@Allana Nikpouri I've checked and tried this all and no luck 😂 I'm just as crazy loolll
@Abbyie I haven't found any yet.. seems that way though
Worse part is that when I found out last time that he had an onlyfans account subscribed to free girls accounts, he argued with me and told me it's not that big of a deal because "it's just porn". However I see it differently. He promised it wouldn't happen again and here we are 2 years later. So sad
Yeah you can’t really talk to them about it they don’t see it as bad i understand I’ve had to deal with it in a couple relationships
If he has an iPhone and he hasn’t cleared his website data through the settings you can go to settings>>safari>> advanced>> website data
To be honest if he has an account he is probably talking to girls on it? I would leave anyway, you don’t need to see and hurt yourself more. I would leave just knowing he’s on onlyfans and blatantly ignored your boundaries. Shows he has no respect for you.
Yeah, if he’s saying “it’s just porn” he doesn’t care that it hurts you.
Guys with a porn addiction are the worst. It alters their reality. The relationship will only get worse when you confront and take it away from them. I’ve been in a relationship with one before and i regret not leaving sooner.
If you haven't tried it, Go into Google settings. Go to manage Google account, security, manage passwords.. that will show you all of the passwords saved on his account. Tbh there's not much that you can't access from Google settings lol. You can download his data there too
Just confront him and move on. What will you do if 3 months go by and you still haven't found his login? Will you actually feel any differently? P.s you have no right to take his children just cuz he cheated on you. He has a right to be a father still and involved in their lives so long as he is a good parent.
@Samantha I mean I would keep them in my care permanently. Not just because of this issue but other issues he has. (Drug use and irresponsible parenting)
i think you kinda j have to wait till he slips up and leave it logged in unfortunately 😭 keep sending yourself screenshots of the log tho, j as proof. make sure to delete everything even in his recently deleted.