Liar
I am currently a sahm with a 19 month old . I agreed to not work so we didn’t have to worry about child care . I recently found out that my partner has a child with another woman . She knows about our relationship and my son and still continued to deal with him as well as him knowing he had a family at home and still continued to deal with her. I don’t have the best family support so this has put me in a real hard place .i wanted my son to have his dad in his life and I’ve tried to make it work but this is the worst betrayal ever . I cannot get over it. He is constantly lying and saying that he wants to work things out but I am completely disgusted by him . I have to just wait it out unfortunately until I get myself together to leave but as much as everyone says leave it’s not as easy as a sahm which is why I think men get women to become one in the first place so they can have total control.
I’m so sorry, but just know that this is only a small chapter in your life compared to the grand scheme of things. It may not feel that way right now but you will one day look back and be thankful that it ended now rather than years down the road. You are strong. You are capable. & you will get through this. Speaking from experience. Over nine years later and I have my own place, graduated with my bachelor degree, and have a successful career.