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@Rhiannon I just feel like he won’t be honest with me, it takes so much to get him to admit to something, idk what to do Also I guess the number thing won’t work if they don’t have WhatsApp?
It won't hurt to test it out for the WhatsApp thing. But if he can't be honest with you then honestly what's the point in you being with him? I know it's easy said than done trust me, my boyfriend has been caught out so many times and I'm still with him 🙄 I'm an idiot tho
@Rhiannon im an idiot too 🤷🏻♀️ I always stay and he always lies and keeps doing the same thing, I’m just scared and I wanted more for our son
I know the feeling, I have 2 kids with my boyfriend it's hard when there's kids and I know loads of people will sha it should be an easy decision but it's really not that easy
You deserve better than always having that anxious feeling of checking his phone. He broke that trust and you never deserved that. You child doesn’t deserve that. No one is doing anything to your family but him. I know you want more for your baby but staying with a cheater is only showing your child that they should stay with their cheater and I think you would want better for your child. I say this as someone who tried to stay with my ex after he cheated cuz I was pregnant and thought I needed to stay for my kids but after 2 years I couldn’t take it anymore. And it’s been 7 years since I walked away and I have no regrets. Here is something else i noticed… my kids don’t know life with their dad living with us or being with me. They were toddlers when i split with him… but i see kids who parents split when they are like 8 and the kids struggle with that change and blame themselves… so idk I just feel it’s better to leave sooner than later before real damage can be done.
Iphone : Go to the Messages Edit in top left corner “Recently deleted” You shouldn’t have to do this and live in a constant anxious state. If you find something there I would leave him without a doubt. If you don’t, then you need to figure out how and if you can move on from this.
You deserve better love you don’t deserve to go through this you deserve to be happy my advice for you don’t go through his phone cos that’s were you going to get hurt more try to ignore what he is doing and focus on yourself and your child and don’t let him see the weak side of you, try to master your mind and soul from emotional abuse, start of clean mind in 2025 create boundaries and set high standards for yourself and please Self Love is important
You should have a conversation with him, a proper heart to heart, he's clearly not happy and be honest with yourself are you? I think once someone has cheated I feel like you can't go back, the trust is broken and it will never be the same but that's me. The mental health effects of this are going to really damage you and you really need to stop letting him treat you like an idiot and have the conversation, get everything off your chest no thinking you aren't say this and that just say it and if he walks away and doesn't have a decent conversation and open up how he feels too and just tries to ditch the topic and conversation then I'd ask him to leave and finish it. You really do deserve better and I hope you do what you need to do ✨
I think instead of going through his phone you need to have a sit down and talk to him.. But if you want to get to the bottom of this disguised contact, copy the number into your phone and go onto WhatsApp you'll be able to see the profile.