Help ttc

Hello ladies! I need some help with ttc ideally would like to conceive in the first month of trying.. I have had a surprise pregnancy the first time around with my now nearly 3yo toddler so feeling a bit stressed now that I have to plan my pregnancy Used ovulation calendars. Have not yet bought ovulation sticks as been sick since the last one week. Different websites show different dates to have sex. So bit confused.. Vaginal discharge and breast soreness confusing me too. According to my research on ovulation calendars I kept my fertile days for more than a week to be safe. Dec 19th-29th. But I only had sex on 20,21, 24,25 and plan to tonight and tomorrow morning. However I got the clear vaginal discharge on 23rd and my breasts were absolutely sore yesterday I normally have a 31 day cycle difficult to pinpoint as I don't get periods on same date every month. Will this be okay for me to get pregnant? As I'm always I've missed my peak fertile days to get pregnant. Thanks in advance
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I was just tracking my ovulation and it had been 6 months without a baby. I did some research and they said to have sex every other day from the last day of your period. I also used fertility crystals and I fell pregnant straight away! I would always recommend having sex every other day it worked for me! That's how they used to do it in the olden times when they couldn't track ovulation.

@Libby what are fertility crystals??

@Sarah Allyn I'm very spiritual so I believe in the healing energy in crystals, I ordered some fertility crystals from Etsy. Unakite, moonstone, smokey quartz, rose quartz and carnelian.

That’s awesome!

Best of luck to you. My only recommendation is to not expect to get pregnant on your first try. You might! And that would be great! But it's not likely, and I feel like you are just setting yourself up for disappointment. I think you are better off trying to have more realistic expectations.

@Taylor thank you for the reality check. But it's hard not to be hopeful 😭

Super fair.

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