Yes and thatās the unfortunate part of it all it can happen for any given reason and all i can do is pray for my rainbow one day , but yes Iāve been told that as we well i think if it doesnāt happen on its own i will wait until end of March due to me not wanting to go through a bad mental toll and give up entirely itās so hard coping when you Couldnāt even see it had i not tested early i wouldāve never known unfortunately so how did you get passed it or work through it
Yeah it can really suck! I have my fingers crossed for you, I know how hard it is! I completely understand about a bad mental health toll when ttc after loss. Itās horrible waiting and you just want to be pregnant again. The first thing that helped me was trying again but I also have a 9 month old so I am very distracted with her which helped. Some people donāt have that unfortunately. I feel the same way this time I canāt wait to start trying again, I just want to be pregnant again and have that feeling. Itās so horrible, Iām heartbroken. That helped the first time though. This time Iām unsure, Iām hurting a lot more than I did last time as Iām unsure Iāll ever have a healthy baby again now itās happened twice. I canāt have it happen again, my mental health now is absolutely shit because of it. I only started bleeding properly yesterday (found out 2nd) so itās still very fresh and not sure how Iām gonna cope this time around. In 1 mind I wanna try again but in another I donāt want
The heartbreak againā¦. It took me 3 years with my first girl so I know how hard it is ttc it took a toll on me for definitely in the start. I donāt want to wait to long as I donāt wanna miss the chance to get pregnant again without it being harder than it was before. Pregnancy and ttc is tough in itself. Look after yourself and if you wanna talk Iām a message away :)
Itās also so hard not to test at the beginning, I found out my one at 7dpo so I know where your coming from there!
Iām so sorry to hear that it is very hard especially if youāre going through a second period of this grief, i hope everything turns around for you as well but definitely celebrating your current blessings is always a good thing š¤ and yes i will always feel like itās something that couldāve been prevented but i know realistically itās nothing weāve done wrong or anything i just hope one day all the mamas get their rainbows whether itās now or later we are all so very deserving of it and only time will tell
If it was the clear blue ovulation tests and was blinking and turned into a solid smiley thats peak ovulation.
@Stephanie okay Thankyou i always thought it needs to be solid first then blink
Thank you I appreciate that. It is definitely hard, much harder than the first time! Thank you and most definitely I doš of course itās nothing youve done, itās no oneās fault itās just nature and nature is shit sometimes. I hope you get your rainbow one day!!š
Of course! It blinks when it's high and solid when it's peak. Sometimes it can be just hours away from each other
Im so sorry this happened I'm in similar boat had miscarriage end of October didn't start to bleed untill end of November and I just want to be pregnant again I got my solid smiley on clearblue today even though app predicted Saturday just pray baby dust for us all x
@Kathy yes definitely i pray we all get that š this year š¤š«¶ sending lots of virtual hugs im trying to be hopeful Iāve been doing the deed everyday šš¤£ just on hopes and prayers at this point i will just keep trying until Flo decides to pay a visit again āØ
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Hi, sorry youāre going through this. Iāve learnt that having a healthy child doesnāt mean anything. I had a healthy child and now suddenly Iāve just had 2 missed miscarriages at nearly 10 weeks. It absolutely sucks, but after your miscarriage Iād leave your body to rest a while, at least have 1-2 periods in between!