Weaning

I feel like I’m doing it wrong. I see so many mums doing BLW but I’m really struggling to do this. My LG is 7 months now & I’ve been doing purées with the occasional cucumber stick etc - this is only when my partner is around. My little girl chocked when she was younger & stopped breathing when we gave her some medicine so that has made me terrified of it happening again. I know the ‘red go ahead & blue they need you’ saying but that saying also terrifies me. I compare myself to friends who have babies & see them really enjoying weaning & im just not at all!! Sorry for long post but I was just wondering if anyone feels like this or has any tips to help me now feel like this. I genuinely feel like a failure at the moment.
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You really done have to do BLWif you’re not comfortable. My son is 7 months too and is on purée most of the times . Black people have different delicacies and he’ll have some of our local foods but he’s very picky . Don’t stress too much as food before one is for fun most of the times and to get used to textures . Comparison is a thief of joy . Goodluck ❤️

@Justina thank you so much for your reply! Xx

I think as parents we stress too much. Pls don’t because a lot of people show off on tik tok. Take your time

I feel really behind too as we moved country so with all the packing etc I just didn't have time. He's only had 5 foods so far and I hate all the mess / clean up as it takes so much time. I'm just aiming for at least one puree a day (I froze a load) for now

There’s nothing wrong with spoon feeding. We started with traditional weaning and at 7.5 months we’re now trying more BLW but she’s not that interested. BLW didn’t exist when we were babies x

There’s nothing wrong with purées but I do a combination of both. You shouldn’t feel any pressure to do BLW but if it’s something you want to try maybe you could look into what support your local council provides. I live in Havering and I did a free weaning seminar through them and they said that some mums who are nervous about BLW go to their feeding cafe (which are basically meant to be for breastfeeding support) and try BLW there with their babies as there are health visitors and early year practitioners there x

Thank you everyone for your replies!! It’s really appreciated! We did a BLW meal this evening & it went okay! X

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