Nursery crying

Hello! My little girl started nursery last week. The first 3 days went great, even her first full day she came out really happy. Since last thursday the staff have been telling me she gets upset in the afternoon, cried and says she misses me. I feel like since then she has made a habit of it (possibley because she has had some extra attention from staff). She has cried every day since although they said today was better. Its not like she is crying the whole time, mostly when she sees other parents collecting some of the kids at the earlier pick up time (which i cant do) Just wondered if anyone else is in the same boat and if they've managed to resolve it. The only things i can find online focus on drop off and thats not the problem as shes delighted to go in. For background my daughter is a pretty independent kid. She has overnights with her granny etc fairly regularly so its not that she cant handle being away from me. I get that its normal for them to be upset but im getting really stressed knowing she is sad. She is so enthusiastic about actually going and when she leaves she always says she cant wait to go back again which is a good sign. I just wish she could fully enjoy herself! I know she will love it once she gets into it more but i just want to help her ❤️
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We’re not in the same boat now as my daughter started nursery over 18 months ago, but I can tell you it does get easier! I read somewhere that it takes about 9 weeks I think for them to settle, so it’s still early days for her. It sounds like she’s doing really well!

@Lauren thankyou. Thats reassuring. The head of the nursery did offer different hours but i dont see that helping. It doesnt matter how long she is in, if somone else leaves before her she gets upset.

@Mary it’s an adjustment period but she will get used to it soon!

Only advice is to just to give it a few months, it does take a long amount of time for them to get fully settled. And even when they are they can have phases of going back to being unsettled so I'd say with nursery you really just have to ride the wave xx

@Sophie thankyou. I think maybe she was fine the first few days because it was all so new. Now the novelty has worn off shes started missing me/feeling a bit lost. Hopefully she'll be alright. ☺️

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