Childcare

How long it take for your child to settle at nursery? My son has started childcare last week. Was supposed to do 3 hours a day but have been doing 45 mins. Apparently he cried constantly without stopping. The first few days we're hard, he couldn't stop crying when we picked him up. But now he's coping better after but I wouldn't say he's his usual self. He grew up mostly at home didn't do much outdoor activities and have a very close knit family of 5 people and not many friends here. That's probably a reason why he feels this way. Nursery have said it might take him longer to settle. Just wanted to know from fellow mums if anyone else have gone through a similar process. Will it get better? Is there anything I could do to make it eas
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How many days a week is your LO going to nursery? This will influence how quick they settle Mine really struggled and it impacted home life, sleeping and he has serious separation anxiety 😟 we weren’t expecting this at all.. We did everything to help but ended up switching to a childminder after 6 weeks of nursery. It’s made a massive difference! Trust your intuition, I know how hard it can be ❤️

@Jaz he's been going 5 days a week. It has impacted for him too. He would wake up screaming at night.. just shit getting better. I haven't considered a childminder. I preferred this as this is a stones throw away from home. Thank you for your reply

My boy has always been very easy going and because my daughter was a covid baby (affected her socially in lots of ways) I tried to take him out and see people as much as possible. He slotted into nursery straight away and absolutely LOVES it. He was going to a child minder once a week and I wouldn't have said he enjoyed that as much as nursery, so might be the opposite for your little one and that they will enjoy a child minder more than nursery as it's more like a home away from home setting?

Does your nursery offer settle in sessions? My LG’s nursery offered us 3 settle in sessions, the first one we was allowed to go to for an hour, then she had 2 hours on her own and then 3 hours on her own. She’s been there now for a couple of weeks and everyday is so different, some days she’s absolutely fine and others she’s really unsettled I think it just takes them a little while to adjust especially when they’ve gone from being glued to mum/dad to someone different in a new environment x

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