I’m petrified

As you know what coming haha plus you have additional responsibilities so it's going to be alot harder lol. But you'll be fine x

@Annabelle true and I hope so x

I'm due in a few weeks and I feel the exact same!! I did with my first but obviously didn't really know what to expect. But now we do so everything is that little bit more scary! We did it once, we can do it again. Right?!

@Annabelle yeah i agree i think also because i have such a bad labour hospital for 5 days with the was a failed induction and emergency c section feeling like my body failed me and then to do it again so close i don’t know how i want to deliver pros and cons to it all like u said we know whats coming and also dont want to be away form my baby for 5 days like last time 😔 so tuff x

Oh I'm sorry to hear you had a rough time. If you had a C section are you having another times time around? Most women do thay don't they? My little girl was unwell when she arrived, I was 2 weeks over 40. I was in hospital for nearly 14 days after. It's tough. I'm hoping for a better experience this time around. My I hear you, the anxiety and fear us REAL. But I'm trying not to let it consume me. What will be will be, and we can't control any of it really. So limit trust in yourself and your body and try and remain optimistic. We did it once, that's what I keep telling myself x

@Annabelle yeah c section again and we can do this sorry to hear about your little girl x

Oh good, well at least you know that's coming and that's something you do know. So it's not completely guess work. That's okay, she's absolutely fine now. Just hoing for a better experience this time around. When are you having your C section x

@Charlotte you’re the first other person I’ve seen that also had a 5 day labour with their first! My little girl was so poorly afterwards too and I was worried the second time round. But guess what, second labour was SO much better. 20 hours still, but I managed most of that at home and my little boy was fine coming out. Will be fine ☺️

@Annabelle at 38 weeks am booked in x

@Sophie I was so poorly after got sepsis and my body was shutting down due to troma luckily after my boy was fine just so scary x

Mine are going to have the same age difference and I’m absolutely crapping it. Deffo feeling the money issue here as I’m not working and it’s just my husband but he’s still paying off so much already we barely see his wage come in what with paying for our house, car, medical bills from our first baby staying in NICU as first baby was born 3month premature! This time round my anxiety is sky high pregnancy was filled with panic attacks even though iv crossed that bridge, I’m not 36w, I’m still just worried about how I’m gonna manage with two under two as a stay at home mum with money being so tight!