Fed up

So I'm a sahm. With that being said the reason i am is because we had two super bad daycare experiences. Now that im a sahm my husband does NOTHING for our house. We have two kids (1 and 2), 4 dogs, a cat, and two birds and the most my husband does is occasionally cook dinner and brush our daughterd teeth and put her to bed. I'm really starting to resent him.. i try to keep our house clean, watch our kids and teach them things and take care of all our animals, i also am studying to take my real estate test. Am i wrong for asking him to help? He acts like im literally asking so much from him to help me with the kids or take the dogs out etc. I feel like im drowning and cant ever keep up. No matter how much i clean the house is dirty, i feel like i dont give enough attention to my kids, the animals get neglected and i feel like i wont ever get my own career. I guess i just need to rant and know that im not the only women that would expect this??