What would you do?
Me & BD have been separated a while now but trying to organise time for him to see little one is a nightmare. We have finally managed to start sorting out 4 weeks at a time. However last week he cancelled less than 24 hours before and this week he also wants to change it as he ‘wants a Sunday off’ these are dates we agreed on at the beginning of jan.
I feel like he constantly wants me to accommodate his changes even when it means having to cancel my plans. He doesn’t prioritise our child and chooses his friends, gf, himself, picking up extra shifts over her.
How would you handle this?
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I stuck to my word and told him the days we agreed still need to stand. He’s basically just said he’s not having her and I’m stopping him seeing his daughter cos I won’t rearrange 🫠🫠 he said he’s sent his solicitor everything 😂 okkaaayyyy then
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Personally I would stop being flexible to his needs. If you've agreed that he would see her certain days and he should stick to that. Being so accommodating is letting him take advantage of you and you deserve better. I know it's Important for kids to have a relationship with dad but they have to want it and show up.