Cheating Moms 😭

I don’t think you will find much response here, as you asking anonymously but people responding not incognito 😉 I don’t think cheating it’s something person will be able to get over. Regards why women’s cheating… in my opinion, if woman allowed herself to make such a step, it’s means that in her head relationships with her partner is over. Men’s cheating… because they are men’s, it’s their kind of nature. With women’s, it’s more complicated.

My mom cheated on my dad multiple times he stayed only because I was in the picture. He don’t get over it he just worked on it but my mom is a sex addict so there really wasn’t much helping nor did she want help. She cheated because she couldn’t stand my dads drinking and smoking but then again everyone has their own problems point of a relationship is working it out together and not keeping things secret.

Don’t do it… it’s not worth it. If you’re done file for divorce or leave.

I don't think it's fair to say cheating is "a man's nature". Thats putting all men in a box. If its "in their nature", then why would any sane woman build a life/have kids with any man, ever? There are plenty of men who don't cheat, just like there are plenty of women who do. Cheating is more of an impulse issue in my opinion. And it's selfish. My aunt cheated on her husband, my mom was cheated on multiple, uncles cheating on aunts, etc. If you're THINKING about being with someone else, just leave before you do 🤷🏽‍♀️

if u wanna be with other people just get a divorce lol

Lmao I’ve only ever cheated once. I was 19 and I didn’t get caught I told him 😭 but he went to basic training and I thought he just couldn’t use his phone but in reality he broke up with me and just didn’t say. But we did got back tg like a year later and he cheated on me but I couldn’t even be mad cause he was getting his lick back I guess but then we eventually broke up after I joined the army

@Sarah literally me 🥲

@Anastasija NO ITS NOT THE "NATURE" OF MEN TO CHEAT. DONT SIT HER SPREADING LIES. THATS LIKE SAYING ITS THE NATURE FOR A WOMAN TO CHEAT

@Anastasija i wish we could respond incognito😂😭😭😭this one doesn’t apply to me but there are many posts on here that i wanna respond to but can’t 😂

I guess some people are fundamentally different because I’d be wondering how long it would take to forgive myself, not how long it would take the other person to “get over it”. If you’re going to cheat at least be remorseful or like someone else said, just get divorced. You’ll never respect him again if he actually forgives you. There’s no point.

And for the rest of the women including the author… if you want to sleep with other men or give attention to other men, or women, just leave the relationship and then you can sleep with however many people you want. The point here is not, if you are unhappy leave to find happiness…that is surely part of it..but you are getting other people’a feelings into this and it's unfair. Don't start playing with others for your pleasure. And I don't want to hear anything about it not being for pleasure because we all know that is bull💩 peace and love to everyone, just don’t hurt people for fun…get a hobby instead. I am not a saint, but I wonder if you are a mom since you're on this app…did you think about your kids? If I learnt that any of my parents cheated on the other, for me they were done for…just think before you do certain things. That’s why we have brains…

@Anastasija 🤢🤢🤮 this is an insane take and it’s crazy that standards for men are so low. It is not in their nature anymore that women’s.

@Haley well that’s my opinion. And it’s have a right to exist, same as yours 😉 I might be wrong in the words I choose, but the idea is that men’s cheating because they just want to, it’s their instinct. If women decide to cheat, probably she already developed some feeling to that person with who she wants cheat.

Lol they always stay!

@Anastasija i don’t think it’s really in their nature or like an instinct but i agree they’re definitely more likely to cheat. i think probably because society has made it more acceptable for men to cheat and so on some subconscious level they don’t think it’s an issue and do it without thinking. but for women it’s *usually* something deeper

@sydney finally someone get what I meant 🫶🏼 I’m for sure for justifying men’s cheating just because it’s a men. It’s unacceptable for both for me. What I wanted to say, that for them it’s kind of easier to do, and, as you said, for women it’s something deeper. Men can cheat and then come back home and still be a good husband and he still loving his partner and family, and doesn’t want to change it. But if women make such a step, most probably in her head relationships are over and there’s no space for feelings anymore. Of course there some individuals, who are just addicted by sex… but seriously, I don’t know this type of women’s.

I did in the beginning of our relationship. I honestly don’t know what I was thinking but yeah.. It’s been years since it happened. He stayed. We both were young also. Now, we’re married. Few months before our 1 year wedding anniversary, my husband cheated (I don’t remember his reasoning) but I stayed. It’s been over a year since it happened. We communicated, work things out and moving forward. Both putting in the work and effort. My inbox is always open to anyone who’d like to talk about their issues as they don’t have anyone to tell to 🫶🏼

My mom cheated on my dad after 25 years of marriage. My dad is a POS. And did everything but have sex with other women and told my mom everything like it was a badge of honor because “I could’ve but I didn’t” 🤬 My mom finally did something selfish after 25 years. It was wrong yeah, but we, her kids were quick to forgive when she asked for forgiveness and my dad was so confused why we could get over her sins but not his. What you are consistent in, is what you will be known for. My dad made her go back to work as “punishment”

Women and men both cheat. People do it out of spite, entitlement, or simply because they aren’t mature enough to end a current relationship before starting a new one. It’s wrong, don’t do it. Period. All this nature bs is just that BS. My hubby has never stepped out on me and I’ve never stepped out on him. And we both consider something as simple as holding hands cheating. It’s a choice.

@Anastasija I just feel very sad for you if you truly think that. I hope you find people that treat you well. But you do you 🤷🏻‍♀️

Why would you cheat? If you don’t want your man cheating on you?.. if you’re unhappy just leave.

I got caught cheating but not in the act. He went signed into my messenger and went through my messages to find out. Then just asked a bunch of questions. Got over it in like 6 months. I cheated because he kept assuming that I was and making every opportunity to try to keep from cheating about him and making me feel like I had no choice. But I also cheated on him with his cousin for the same reason

@Breanna people cheat for different reasons. Usually because something is lacking in their relationship and the other person just doesn’t wanna fix it or change it. And someone else usually if satisfying that need for you. Because you can just emotionally and mentally cheat. Not att cheating is physical

I almost cheated I was just spending too much time with my coworker we got too close so i put up some boundaries and tried for focus more on a friendship so I wouldn’t ruin my marriage